He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You

The No-excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

Book - 2009
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Based on an episode of "Sex and the City," offers a lighthearted, no-nonsense look at dead-end relationships, providing advice for letting go and moving on.
Publisher: New York : Simon Spotlight Entertainment, 2009.
Edition: Newly expanded ed., Simon Spotlight Entertainment trade pbk. ed.
ISBN: 9781416909774
Branch Call Number: 306.73 BEH
Characteristics: xv, 187 p. : ill. ; 22 cm.
Additional Contributors: Tuccillo, Liz


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FindingJane Jun 23, 2016

Who can decipher how a man thinks? Another man, who else! Witty, hard-hitting and featuring letters from anxious women about their boyfriends’s baffling behaviors, Mr. Behrendt (first single, now happily married) dissects the various excuses, lies, rationalizations and evasions of boyfriends and shows how a really decent man will cross heaven and earth to be with you and won’t use feeble excuses to escape. Stop kidding yourselves, ladies. If he’s giving mixed messages, one remains clear: he’s just not interested. Ditch him and move on.

Feb 16, 2015

This book was so entertaining, funny, and informative! I wish I had read this earlier! I just loved it!

May 15, 2014

I heard all the hype about this book so I thought I would check it out. I was disappointed. Not as good as I thought it would be.

Mar 01, 2012

A little stereotypical at times, but the title is a good representation of what to expect.

It's an entertaining book, with examples I think most of us can relate to. I expected some of the stereotypes, so I wasn't put off by them.

It's a light read, but entertaining. Overall it is actually fairly good advice, taken with a grain of salt of course!

agenesis Jan 26, 2012

Loved this book. Wished I'd had this advice when I was starting to date. I didn't find it "stereotypical"...any woman who's hoping for a man to one day fall in love with her should read this book, IMHO. Check it out for yourself, women.

Sep 09, 2010

I couldn't finish this book. Too many stereotypes about men. Ugh.

Mar 07, 2010

Lindsay's. I know MANY women that should read this.

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AmandaVollmershausen Jul 16, 2012

"Bad boys are true to their names. They're actually bad. Stop making excuses for him, he's just not that into you"

AmandaVollmershausen Jul 16, 2012

"Here's what guys don't do when they can't live without you: break up with you. This guy is seriously so not into you it's crazy."


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AmandaVollmershausen Jul 16, 2012

This book is a harsh reality check for the women who like to convince themselves that men are sending them 'mixed messages' or are just 'complicated' 'busy' or 'emotionally unavailable'. The book explains bluntly how you know when a guy is 'just not that into you'. It's a fair, hilarious and challenging approach to dating, but somewhat of a controversial approach. It's written in the perspective of a man and a woman, and also uses letters sent in from women who fear that their men are just not into them.


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